In this third part of 3 series, we look at the rights and duties of spouses between each other and the in-laws, and how we can all live in harmony.
0:00 Introduction
0:37 The importance of marriage
17:20 Rights and duties between spouses
36:46 Things a wife loves in a husband
39:36 Things a husband loves in a wife
43:23 What makes a woman unattractive to her husband?
44:35 What makes a man unattractive to his wife?
45:46 Mutual rights between spouses
52:41 Rights of the wife
1:05:40 Rights of the husband
1:06:54 The in-laws
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Those asking for reference to Hadiths about the prohibition of forced marriages:
Bukhari (6968) and Muslim (1419) – ‘that the virgin and woman cannot be made to marry a until they are asked for their consent first’
Ibn Majah (1874) – story of the woman ‘Barirah’ forced to marry and complained the prophet pbuh.
Jazak Allah Kheir for this beautiful lecture.
please could you keep me and my husband in your duas, so that we have love and mercy between us and have righteous children and an easy life.
Assalamualaikum Sheikh. I wish these lectures were in Bengali language too. So many people from Bangladesh could listen and learn from it. This topic is very important.
Its not that women are not valuing motherhood or being a wife. Its that tbe society looks down on stay at home mothers/fathers. There are men expecially that think being a wife and mother is not a full-time job. So women who choose this path are valued by society.
There are so many videos on wife's rights but the second some one makes a video about husbands right every one has a problem
Thank you for sharing such deeper insights on marriage, I am from India 🙂
To the goblins and the cockroaches in the comments commenting ab Aisha and the Prophet ﷺ, didn't y'all study history? Some women before matured very early, and men have been marrying young women a lot and nobody saw it as something wrong bc it wasn't in some cases. Women were and are being forced to marry young and old, yes, but it truly is the fault of the individuals for engaging and participating in an evil act like that. Islam is perfect, not the muslims. This era is VERY different from centuries ago. Women used to cover up more now what we see is more flesh than clothes, no woman would've dared to wear revealing clothes in the 40s of 50s. Y'all see that as freedom, but it's totally the opposite, slave to the and the male gaze and their desires.
While some women choose to wear nothing so does the Muslim woman. It both is their choice. One is rewarded, one faces the consequences.
İ wish l knew all my rights in islam, as a daughter, sister, wife. I would not of let myself get abused physically or verbally. I would have made better decisions in life, l am 60 yrs old now l have learnt True İslam elhamdülillah, listening to good truthfull Scholars, Bilal Assad, Zakir Nail, Ali Hammuda, many more , also some very good İslam teachings in Türkiye elhamdülillah. I was married to a guy my brother wanted me to marry. He didnt want children, he wanted me to work so he can get rich, he physically abused me, verbally degraded, me , verbally abused me, in those days 44 yrs ago , the men wanted to come to Australia, he was one of them. And unfortunately us girls were used for Australia. We were taught to get along no matter what. I was the one running aroud paying rent bills shopping, etc. He and his mum put fake jewellery on Nikah. I was used in every sense of the word. Cut a long story short. I was not given Mehir, all my earnings were robbed from me , he was a Liar. For yrs l left it behind me , l divorced him after 21 months elhamdülillah . Only l wish l knew all my rights when l was young.l wouldnt have married him, l would not have let myself get used like that and abused. I would have made my own choices and better decisions in all, l wanted to do. I still feel depressed about all that, but Elhamdülillah knowing on Mahşer my rights and my Hakk will be given to me inşallah , relieves my hurt, He robbed me , as Bilal Assad says , he through me under the bus. Lied about me to our family friends. Used me to do everything, all my earnings.
Dua is most important elhamdülillah l learnt True İslam elhamdülillah ❤
This is one of the best messages I’ve listened to concerning marriage matters!
Alhamdulillah for directing me to this page
JazakAllah khairan
Alhamdulillah as long as I'm sure that will be fine for me and my wife all the rest of the stregth family's lives in the house of my wife I'm happy with my new life as my family a on the way home so I'm love you too much loved it so much lovely to see you both always love you lots and love you lots darling hope you have a good day sweetheart love from my beautiful little heart love and love you right now i well love may Allah bless us all and may make it sure yes for us and protect guide and support our family's homes together with our children and guide us to the best of the stregth part of the stregth part of the ❤ one love Allah rabbi jallah whallah his best wishes for him to have the best of the stregth part of degree off nowlghe soccer ⚽ the world is like a new boll run out ❤way to get a stop on ❤❤❤❤❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
Mashaallah tabahrak Allah piehkuhm alhamdulillah rabbilallamiehne hascbieiallah whniehmalwakiehle Allah is insufficient for me and everyone else trust him and lhamdulillah almighty rabbi jallah whallah his best wishes for him to be honest with each other and they are very happy with his own way awho life being the best of the stregth part of degree off nowlghe soccer and even more than a year old and a good time to get a good deal or a full season already hagqhallah higher than expected graduates to grade grate gratefully received a good time ❤❤❤🎉
Please explain us that 4 wives subjects…was that not a different kind of marriage contract and other rules…You can mostly explain it good Mr.Assad.
Sadakta. Informative and engaging ❤
44:45 brother married someone like his mother
Never content never happy always complains
All because he expects his wife to work and he demands she be like his mothers
Make his meals do the groceries shopping
So blind towards his mothers life
All the credit none of the work
His sisters were forced to do his mothers housewife duties the father did the groceries
His sisters did the shopping as adults they maintained the family household
terima kasih😊😊
im poor but im doing ok because of Allah AlhamdulilAh ☺ im 31 mixed ethnicity young man i never been married because im broke and i was young an wild did Time but i pray now and just humble with what i have and the fact i can pray and do good AlhamdulilAh but in-sh-Allah i can get a good job get off probation and some day marry . i pray to Allah alot of young men like me who are strong an smart get a chance cause alot of us been to prison an been in gangs but never get a chance to have a family an a job and love .
Thank you brother Belal, a very well articulated guide of marriage in Islam. Problem is a lot of people conflate cultural practices with reIslam did not make marriage black and white, but unfortunately we have some people who treat it that way, unfortunately we even have people with a platform propagating the wrong understanding of marriage, or people cherry picking certain teachings to forward their agenda of control or to put down men/women. This is one of the best guides to marriage I have come across, because it captures the true essence and form of marriage in Islam. Marriage is not about women running men dry and extorting them, nor is marriage about subjugating, controlling and abusing women. Allah has made marriage, that it can be beautiful, but that’s only if we love for the sake of Allah and follow the guide given to us in the Qur’an and by the prophet Muhammad (SAW).
Absolutely fantastic speech, I watched it because I felt some injustice in my marriage but now realise that I also have faults and I am man enough to rectify the most important relationship in my life. It’s literally the most important speech I’ve heard that impacts on our lives that respects everyone but puts them in there place.
My husband said I had to be a Secret, he didn't want his family in Mauritania (AFRICA), to now he had married me, and then ASK me to put his name on my house. Then he wanted to meet ALL of my friends & family. He didn't want me to meet any of his family or friends. What does that sound like ? Well, I found out, oh yes.
Subhanallah,
May Allah grant you a special place in Jannah. Allah knew I needed to hear this lecture. Alhamdulliah.
I will rise my son like you inshaAllah.
A fair man in relationship with Allah💛
Mashallah,, very beautiful and speech im soo glad for coming across this aazing vedio and I've been learned alot,, asa single gril that was a very helpful ,,,thank you very much, and plese keep it up doing amazing vedios,,
… 58:17 lol it's okay Mr Belal… You can drop the F bomb 😂 i am joking,..
JazakAllah khair for the knowledge, i am here listening at work and thought of send few dollars for you or your digital team to buy a cup of coffee .
Have a blessed Jumaah in down under- may Allah continues to bless us all ❤
Assalamu alaikum i have been goiing through this problem now and it's going to be in divorce so i need a clear clarity and need a solution so can u give councelling sir how can i contact you