In this lecture, we uncover the hidden dangers of envy, jealousy, and the evil eye, how they creep into our hearts, damage our lives, and the powerful remedies Allah has given us to fight back.
0:00 Dua for Gaza
1:05 Intro
2:02 Who is the bankrupt person?
5:31 Envy is the action of the heart
11:50 What is envy?
17:30 Why is envy so bad?
19:35 What is jealousy?
24:02 4 types of jealousy in modern psychology
27:40 3 types of jealousy in Islam
28:54 The praiseworthy envy
31:24 Inert envy
33:35 Aggressive and spiteful envy
40:40 7 remedies to protect your heart
46:36 Envy can lead to the evil eye
56:20 Some of the signs of the evil eye
59:11 Protection from the evil eye
1:01:00 Q&A
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ASAW, does evil eys stay for years and years with a person?
When you did not realize it was an evil eye?
For myself,
44:20 Dua
1:10:30
1:11:35
Ameen
I am not envios i just want to be left alone…
May Allah SWT protect us from the evil eye and purify our hearts from not giving someone else the evil eye.
Ameen
Very good video Allumabarik. May Allah allow us not to have envy or jealousy Ameen
❤
38:32
Types of envy
🔖 Emulative envy:
Positive envy inspiring self-improvement without ill will; can be rewarded by Allah.
🔖Inert envy:
Feeling discouraged or giving up on oneself without ill will, but can lead to despair if prolonged.
🔖 Aggressive envy:
Wishing harm, backbiting, gossiping, conspiring against others to reduce their blessings.
🔖Spiteful envy:
Actively seeking to ruin others, spreading lies, and sabotaging reputations
7 Remedies to protect you heart
1️⃣Be mindful of your own blessings.
2️⃣Make dua to Allah for His bounty.
3️⃣Make dua for the people whom you feel envious of.
4️⃣Look at those who have less than you.
5️⃣Reflect on Allah’s Qadar (divine decree).
6️⃣Remember that everything in this world is temporary.
7️⃣Trust that Allah has a better plan for you.
Ya Allah, grant our neighboring brothers and sisters the blessings You have granted our country, Morocco. Remove from their hearts any hostility, jealousy, and hate. Replace these with peace, brotherhood, and mutual love. Ameen.
Omg I have had family members actively take actions against me so I would lose many blessings — all stemming from extreme jealousy
Amiin ya rabbi ❤
As people often focus primarily on "others" and fear the harm of others' envy, you have captured the essence of what we should care more about: ourselves. When we work on the purification of our hearts and souls, in this way, we protect ourselves and the entire community. May Allah grant you the best of rewards.
Aameen
if you lack the bad envy – which is good u get a lot of haters towards to you. Call Upon Allah (SWT) for protection
Amin yarebi and may Allah does the same for sudan
Allahumma Ameen 🙏🙏🙏
Allahumma Ameen 🙏🙏🙏
Asalaam o alaikum brother Belal, hope you are well, another great lecture, This is off topic but i hope you might be able to answer this as you are in Australia? What has happened to mohamed Hoblos? I follow him on YouTube also but he has been inactive for a while? Hope he is ok InshaAllah. Jazakallah, Love from the Uk
اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
Barek Allah Shaikh
💚 Envy Vs Jealousy
Envy is a feeling of hate n resentment for blessings and possessions Allah has given someone else. Feeling envious is not sinful unless it turns into a wish or action towards someone's blessings be taken away.
Jealousy is fear of losing someone or something to someone else. Praiseworthy jealousy (protective jealousy/gheerah)is with probable cause and liked by Allah, but should not become oppressive or obsessive possessiveness. Non praiseworthy jealousy is without probable cause and disliked by Allah.
Types of envy in Islam
✔️ Aggressive/forbidden/spiteful/malicious envy. When you wish harm upon and conspire against a person to lose their blessings. It is sinful and can grow into major sins.
✔️Emulative/permissable envy for worldly material things that are beneficial and not forbidden, without feeling spite or malice for the other person. Not sinful
Emulative/permissable envy that is rewarded by Allah. Emulating someone that has a religious or virtuous blessing/skill used in matters of worship and matters pleasing to Allah.
✔️Inert envy is being happy for other people's blessings but can be debilitating if it arouses unhealthy feelings of low self esteem and inadequacy in oneself. Can be sinful if it leads to doubting Allah's decree.
🔎Signs of a spiteful envious person
🔹not generous unless it benefits them🔹hit n run, talk negatively without being caught🔹pretend friend to get more info 🔹thrive on gossip🔹feel happiness in other people's misfortune 🔹are social media stalkers🔹make up lies, stories and look for opportunities to sabotage a person's reputation or success🔹
🗝️ Treating spiteful envy
🔹Self reflection and be mindful of own blessings 🔹ask Allah to grant you from His abundance/bounties🔹make dua for one you are envious of🔹look at ones who are less fortunate🔹accept Allah's qadr of the share He has given you🔹 remember everything of dunya is temporary 🔹what others have might not be good for you and what Allah has for you is better for you
Not every envy is evil 👁️ but every evil 👁️is from envy. If you admire something in someone say Allahumma barik lahu or Allah barakath.
Allah subhana grant us contentment and peace in what He has decreed for us.
The heart icon on this video's thumbnail is extremely grotesque. If possible, please change the thumbnail, thank you.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته جزاك الله خيرا كثيرا
So patiently n beautifully explained… when my husband compare me to others this is so harmful… yaa Sheikh can u explain about greed, when my spouse wants more from in laws and is never satisfy n call them miser.. do grandparents have to give their earnings to grandchildren… it really put relationships at stake…. May Allah reward u n ur family اللهم آمين
Rabbigh firli wali walidaen
May the sheikh Assaad be highly blessed by Allah through the highest ranks in the Akhirah for all of his useful work 🤲
For those who would like to know more about this topic, pick one of the books who have been extracted from "al uhya al a3lm dine" from Imam Al Ghalazi (arrahim Allah) which is about angry, envy and jealousy 😀
Is hating a person for calling you names is Haram not envy but just a pure hate for ruining your reputation
جزاكم الله خيرا
I have a big Problem with jealousy 😓
I feel all the time jealous when I am out with my husband , whenever a Lady Passes I scar he will Look at her and think she is attractive.
We live not togheter yet, he live in switzerland me in Germany. And he also works outside to make Food delivery where many people go out and there is lots of fitnah – I just can’t Control the emotions they are so strong and overcome me, I Feel so lost when I feel like this. I already Made lots dua that Allah Removes this feelings – but I just think they are from my traumatic childhood I scar to loose people I love. I scar that I am Not enough 😞
Shaik l love u so much. If you make lectures shorter I think it's nice
Amin
Sheikh, do I need to recite on water and drink it? Or is it enough to recite the Quls, Ayat Al Kursi etc. before I go to sleep every night insha Allah? Jazāk-Allāhu khayrā. 🌻
Sheikh i love your videos, but the thing which i noticed is that on your thumbnail you have used eye which isnt permissible to make as far as i know since i follow sheikh assim al hakeem, so i hope you change the thumbnail. Allah knows the best
may Allah forgive me