In this first part of 3 series, we explore a brief summary of the Islamic foundations of what a healthy family looks like, and by referring to the expert advice and research. We touch on the most important points of rights, obligations and healthy relationships within the family unit and relatives. Most of this information and advise is based on the Quranic principles and prophetic tradition applicable to the modern family.
0:00 Introduction
3:17 The concept of ‘Rahim’ (family ties) in Islam
9:46 Issues of control and ownership
21:20 Importance of extended family support
24:25 The dysfunctional family of 5 types
30:25 Rights of children
36:10 Prioritizing children over a career
39:27 Teaching children the Quran (www.quranera.com)
42:11 Treating your children equally
47:24 Importance of being a role model
55:12 Violating 5 human rights
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my husband also came from a southeastern country to the uk, the main reasons my mums sisters and brothers chose a cousin for me to marry was due to them being poor and i had to be forced to marry their child, now he has a big family in that country 6 siblings and parents. now my aunts and uncles know he is here to make money mainly for them to make them wealthy and rich and many many years later still to this day my husband apparently HAS TO give money to his parents and siblings and their wives and their children every month. while constantly complaining about me and my children either eating too much, apparently we have too much toys and clothes, its a normal amount. But its always been an argument to buy anything for me and my children but when his mother asks for money or his father none of his other brothers give money its always apparently on my husband to give lots of money to look after them all. i hold his stance on me his wife and my children to account on the day of judgment to get justice for this unjust behaviour especially if islam puts the wife and children first.
but what if you have a sister who because had a haram relationship and got married to a gangster encouraged the younger siblings to also have haram relationships to get married and when your the eldest only one who had an arranged marriage halal means you speak up and she turns everyone in the family against you and even tries to have you family harmed due to her other half, how can you stay happy andloving when they continue tofight you and put hate in the younger siblings to speak rudely harshly and even threateningly to you? how can you keep ties in that situation.
Did the Sheikh almost mention Big Pharma 😅
Sheikh we used to listen to you over 20 yeaes ago i remember Ahmad the repenter and the verses from Surah Furqan. I was at University. I then got married had kids and you were still a consistent voice in the ummah. Fast forward 18 years later. I am a window a single mum of 6 with teenagers. Here we are listening to you as a family. May Allah accept it and preserve you sheikh. May Allah help us to continue to implement your naseeha
"The Rahim" which means family ties ❤
Assalamu alaikum I'm from Sri Lanka Muslim help me please have a no money have no home have a schedule husband left please help me need small house insah ALLAH
This is the most life changing video I’ve watched ❤
Can you answer my question sheikh Belal
Mashallah beautiful lecture. I unfortunately lost my oldest brother recently. He always wish the family will come to gather. His wish came true.
Yeah! Raising childs, not marrying them.
WHO IS A WHO, THAT ISNT ME INSIDE MY HOME OR ANYONE ELSES HOME ALSO, 7,43,59
How can I contact Belal Assaad.
I LOVE CHILDREN
I RAISED MY SISTERS KIDS
SHE WAS ALWAYS WORKIN
ITS UNFORTUNATE MY BACK PAINS INCREASED WHEN ISMAEEL WAS BORN AND I STARTED OPIUM. BUT HE STILL HAD A GOOD CHILD HOOD. BETTER THAN MOST OF THE CHILDREN SUFFERING IN PALESTINE, THATS WHY REGARDLESS WE ARE STILL BLESSED.
BUT IM BETTER NOW. I WANT TO HAVE LOADS OF CHILDREN. AND ENJOY MY LIFE.
I read and if I am not right, Allah alum that if u marry with closeness like your cousin and nephew that the change to have a handicap kid or a kid who is stupid with all respect is very high.
May Allah SWT shower his blessings on you and your family and loved ones InshaAllah. Thank you for all the amazing work you are doing. May Allah SWT keep you safe, healthy and successful InshaAllah in this world and the hereafter ❤
Elhamdülillah beautiful informative teachings Islam elhamdülillah ❤
What do you do as an adult, when those things were done to you as a child, and it affects your adult life?
Assalamu'alaikum Warohmatullohi Wabarokaatuh.. Thank you for the lectures Ustadz Asaad.
Brothers and Sisters please make du'a for me and my wife to have children 😇🤲
Wassalamu'alaikum Warohmatullohi Wabarokaatuh
Assalamu Alaikum Sheikh, i wanted some advice. What does a girl do if her mother and brothers gets her son in law arrested on false accusations of rape, of daughters child from her first marriage. Does she still keep in contact with her family members? Her husband who was cleared of all chargers insisted on her family and daughter never visiting their home, though she is welcomed to go visit her family alone without his kids that they had together. The granddaughter has said it was not the stepfather who raped her but it was consensual between her and her cousin brother. The son in law was locked up for 2 weeks and released. He says hes been through a very traumatic experience and he cant accept them anymore. Please advice how does the girl move on from this, does she still keep in contact or should she respect her husband's wishes ? The mother in law is also living with the ex husband of the daughter so basically her ex son in law and the granddaughter are living together so the girl doesnt want to go there because of the ex husband who wasnt even apart of the childs life for 9 years and it was the stepfather who raised the child for 9 years.
Thanks syeik 😢
As a foster parent to many Muslim children it’s sad to see how much this generation has deteriorated…
Wonderful advice Sheikh
How to survive with a narcissist mother specially when she reached 100 and making my life miserable 😢
Masha Allah jazakallah khair
I’ve been raising my 3 kids all on my own for about ten years Alhamdulillah their all grown up now but let me tell you it’s the hardest thing to do in life… I look at it as a test from Allah (swt)…😊
Me as a mother of 3 and about to have another in just 2 weeks In Shaa Allah, I love this video so much, my children are young oldest is 8 years, and as a Matter of fact am so proud of me and my husband as we are doing well with most mentioned above, and we are going to continue with the puberty sides mentioned above to In Shaa Allah. Walahi am very happy and proud of us. May Allah help us parents to be able to take care of these amaanah( children)Allah has entrusted to us till Jannah. May Allah bless and protect our children ❤. Thank you Sheikh Allah bless you and your family
Am addicted to this page and am glad I am. Alhamdulillah
wallah his channel is so helpful. May Allah bless you brother ❤
Please more parenting videos for parents-to-be 🙏🙏🙏
Jazak Allah Khair
Jazakallah brother !
How come no one of you invite the Muslim leaders to unite the whole world is united against Islam and the Muslim leaders are not are they afraid or they don’t want to be Muslims anymore?
Ok. I have a question.
Abrahim was married to his half-sister, was his marriage haraam?
Not every mother can afford to stay home. In many western countries, 2 salaries are needed to survive.
Assalam walikum
May AAllah Bless for your wonderful speech 🤲❤❤❤
What about if you always study and pray you always read your Quran and at the end you feel your exam your parents will be mad at you what are you going to do
Brother, only Allāh knows how much you are benefitting us. Jazāk Allāhu khairān.
A request please, please also speak about taking care of elderly parents and the fitnahs associated with that. Some of us are tested through our parents. Would love to hear words of advice on how to navigate our ways and still take care of them despite the challenges. Jazāk Allāhu khairān again.
Jazakallahu khair Sheikh am grateful
10:22 parents don't own their children
25:50 disorders, Bipolar ,borderline personality histronic
Whatever said over here are so true. My parents are toxic. They prefer my sister over me and she abuses me. They listen to her and oppresses me. I have mental trauma and I have low self esteem, constant depression. My age is around 40. It's always a struggle to deal with outside cutthroat world. My parents always talks negative to my relatives and they share my private everything. Relatives always misbehaves. They use religious texts and whenever I mention the right things, they completely ignores. My father has money and he deprived us from the assets. The cycle of oppression is continuing. I am not married and I don't want this cycle to continue in my next generation.
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