Q&A – Toxicity and the cost our children pay

Q&A – Toxicity and the cost our children pay



In this video, we answer some of the questions related to the lecture “Emotional Damage – Toxicity and the cost our children pay”.

0:00 Going through the court system
3:34 Intervention orders and custody
10:48 How do I overcome trauma from my parents?
13:59 How do I ensure my own children don’t go through this?
17:50 Family claims mental health = low faith
24:30 My parents don’t respect my privacy

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@IdrisaMayele
7 months ago

Jazakallah 🎉

@nailam9604
9 months ago

Apologies for my lack… I was a little lost 😞 but now I’m glad to be able to be of a student in learning again 😊❤🎉

@alimujahid6595
1 year ago

Allahumma Ameen 🙏🙏🙏

@piqueny8872
1 year ago

Sis ex made it known he will never use contraception
So if she get pregnant every year it’s her problem.
She gave him the sons he’s always wanted
( culture obsession with sons)
The ex become abusive so she had no choice to divorce
He lied refused to pay child support yet wanted to see his kids?! Some men should really choose to have vasectomies!! If they don’t want responsibilities

@NurFatehaTeha-k5e
1 year ago

Sheikh,iam trying to leard Quran but i am not being able to do that for some reasons. But when i listen to your recitation i feel inpired to learn quran. So pls pls pls upload a long video of your recitation. There is no long video of your quran recitation in YouTube.

@nadia-Kaz
1 year ago

Breaking trauma cycle is really hard, but carrying that baggage or any past baggage will be back breaking. @11:50 Sheikh's advice is true to each letter. Release, Rewire and Go.
Our traumas, mistakes or people's opinion of us, is not us. What good we can learn from them, makes us.
Our Prophet (SAW) went through soo much in his life, and from such a young age. Much to learn from his Seerah in this context. May Allah make ease for everyone and guide us to what pleases our Lord.
Listening to this video again.

@syedmazharuddin1463

Jazak Allah sheikh

@_Mariya__
1 year ago

❤

@AffectionateSeaOtter

🚨 Please Read This – I do NOT recommend Muslim families to settle divorce and custody matters in Western Family Court Systems – They have no codified laws protecting the rights of women and children. I know many Muslim women who ended up losing their young children to abusive fathers because Family Courts in the West favor fathers (even if they are criminals and murderers) over good mothers and they do NOT care to even ask the child. I also know Muslim women who were forced to pay the husband child support just because they earned more than the husband (eg if sister is a doctor but husband is not). This is the opposite of Islamic Law. Sisters who choose to leave their jobs and become stay at home moms suffer even more because during the divorce proceedings their years of labor at home are totally dismissed and disregarded as if they don't count and don't matter and their resulting lack of income is then used as a pretext by the judges to forcibly take the children away from her and give them to the father (even when they are young and even if they are older and prefer to stay with their mothers). They are cunning enough to call it the best I terest of the child – This has actually happened and is NOT fiction. So please take this seriously. The family home is then also split as part of community property and the funds used to pay attorney fees first rather than help mom and the children and she is left with no shelter either – please do NOT fall for the nonsense these non-Muslim lawyers tell you and don't believe them even if they are females -they are nobody's friend. They destroy Christian families as well and squander and steal the family assets that should be going to the children and they do it all under the color of Law – They are able to do this and get away because Western countries do NOT have proper Family Laws as we have in Islam. Muslims living in these countries get fooled into thinking that since these countries are more technologically advanced their Family Laws must also be very good. Nothing can be further from the Truth – Don't fall for this trap brothers and esp. sisters. You will really regret it.

I, therefore, strongly urge Muslim communities to get organized and establish a way to settle marital and divorce matters OUTSIDE of Western Family Courts. This is an URGENT appeal. Please do not ignore it. – These Western family courts routinely traumatize, abuse and violate women and children's rights and also use many underhand methods to steal family assets that should be passed on to our Children, and not theirs. Please give this some serious thought. We need to address this issue urgently. It's only going to turn into a bigger and bigger problem.

@MOTHUG786
1 year ago

Salaam. Unless you live in a shariah state, "legal litigation" won't help you, if you're a man, you'll be emasculated, if you're a women, western legal system will help your emasculate the man and take his house, his wealth and his kids.

Marriage isn't worth it in the west, you'll be at the mercy of you wife's whims and desires, when she's ready to leave you, she'll sl4nd3r you in court so she can take your house, your islamic rulings won't help you, as it's not enforcable… I know men who are ruined through marriage and divorce. Stay safe gents.

@zainabo.7940
1 year ago

Allahumma Barik, the first thing that came to my mind when the sheikh said "let me tell you something", was that audio 😂. And then he proceeded to reference it

@nadia-Kaz
1 year ago

BarakAllahufeek Sheikh. You are truly a blessing. Every piece of advice is gold.✨️

@shalizamohammed868
1 year ago

Daily Dhikr Reminder .🌼♥️💚.Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La ilaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

@LilLion1818
1 year ago

It really helps to hear solutions from our favorite Sheikh ☺️ It would be so great if you could make a more detailed video about it… or even an entire course for traumatized people.
Because to me… the way you speak about this topics – with wisdom, empathy and from a perspective I’ve never seen before – really helps to navigate through the next steps I’ve to take.

May Allah reward you Sheikh 🥹💐

@naz8m-i9g
1 year ago

Says who likely to raise the IVO, we dont call out those who are leverage courts to lie and deny on partners rights

@christinajurzis5718

🙏🙏🩵🩵

@mokmomin
1 year ago

jazakAllah khair…may Allah(swt)bless you sheikh Belal Assaad and your team.

@RISKAIKKA-b2x
1 year ago

Saya sangat bersyukur menemukan video2 anda,di negara saya ajaran agama islam sangat rumit karna bercampur dengan tradisi,saat menemukan video2 anda saya bisa memandang agama ini sangat indah dan saya enjoy melaksanakannya thank you untuk semua video anda sangat membantu❤🇮🇩

@M3ITASNUVA
1 year ago

May Allah for give and bless us . Aujubillah

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